Do you believe this?

This entry is a reflection on this week’s Gospel, Jn 11:1-45 .

While in college, I told my mom that I didn’t believe in Jesus, and that I didn’t want to be Catholic, anymore. I was tired of going to church, and made the excuse that I just didn’t “feel” God in my life.

For a very long time, I presumed faith was based on how I “feel” God in my life. I pondered… the Samaritan woman at the well, to the healing of the man born blind, and this week in bringing Martha’s brother Lazarus back to life… sometimes I wished God would do some of that for me!

I realize now that I was waiting for the wrong thing, and that feelings alone are too fleeting. In these Gospel encounters leading up to Easter, the miracles aren’t the highlight, but rather the single question Jesus asks, personally. Standing face to face, eye to eye, Jesus asked, “Do you believe?”

Yes, or No?

And each – the Samaritan woman, the blind beggar, and Martha (before any miracle while Lazarus lay dead), had to make a decision.

I can only imagine what that choice would feel like. To actually stand facing Jesus. A man as kind and com-passionate as he is, yet also someone who would tell me when I am wrong. A man who would speak truth to me, in the right way, at the right time. A man who I may have seen do incredible things.

He would ask me, too, candidly, “Do YOU believe?”

So after proclaiming to my mom back then that I wanted to be Catholic no-more, I quickly realized Jesus asked the same question of me. And I wrestled with it. And asked God to ask me again… please not this week but next week. And the next week after that. And the next one, after that.

What saved my faith was to pray that God help make the choice clearer to me, regularly. I imagined Jesus standing in front of me, and asking me face to face. I could ask questions back to Jesus if I struggled.

After reading this week’s Gospel, what if you were standing there when Jesus asked Martha? What if Jesus suddenly turned to you and asked, “Do you believe?” How would you respond?

“To be tempted by the devil” Mt 4:1-11

Often, when I was younger and heard this reading, I would wonder about the temptations that Jesus faced.  I would ask myself: what if the Devil came and challenged me with temptations similar to Jesus’? Would I be ready?  Deep in these thoughts about facing the Devil, I would then mentally prepare myself for the challenge.  Like an athlete before a big game, I would silently hype myself up.

“Bring it on Devil! I won’t be tempted! Bring in on!! Jesus is with me and together we’ll defeat you!”

As fast as this motivation and hype came, it fleeted away just as quick.  Because let’s face it: I knew that I wouldn’t have to face the same temptations Jesus faced.  I don’t have the power to turn stones into bread, nobody is promising me a whole city, and, even though God loves me, there are no scriptures written that indicate He’ll send His angels to “carry me.”  After all, I am not Jesus, beloved Son of God. Why, then, would the Devil care to take me on?  So as motivating as this scripture was, I always felt safe that I would never have to deal with the Devil face-to-face.

“The Devil is in the details”

As time flew by and I grew older and somewhat wiser, I came to the realization that the Devil appears to me all the time.  All of you are probably guessing that I am alluding to how we are often tempted by friends, by strangers, or a million other ways in our daily lives.  That the Devil comes from all sources and does not have to appear before us personally.  If that is your guess on where I am going, you would be right. However, you would also be wrong.  I am not saying that temptations do not come from these external sources, because they do.  But these temptations are easily recognizable.  It is easy for me to say no to a stranger or a friend tempting me with something like drugs or anything that will hurt my relationship with God.

What I am talking about is way more difficult.  It is when the Devil gets personal, real personal with me, that it becomes a different story.

“If you are the Son of God, command that these stones become loaves of bread.”

The Devil whispered this to me.  But the stones that I am presented with aren’t literal stones. Maybe it’s something I have in my grasp, like money or time.  How easy would it be for me to turn what I have been blessed with into things I want but not necessarily need?  To selfishly waste it on myself.  If I am not starving, the money I have could make someone else’s life significantly better if given away. In my experience, the free time I’ve spent on others has resulted in great relationships and created both happiness for myself and those around me.

“If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down. For it is written: He will command his angels concerning you and with their hands they will support you, lest you dash your foot against a stone.”

While I have never been tempted to test God,  I have from time to time been tempted to not trust in His plans for me.  To follow my own will instead of God’s will.  To think that I can find my own happiness without following His path.  The results have often been heartbreak and pain. God’s will and His path for me might be difficult, but I understand His ultimate plan is for my own happiness.  True happiness is with God.

“All these I shall give to you, if you will prostrate yourself and worship me.”

Another false promise dressed in gold.  It’s obvious I have never been promised a city to rule. Personally though, how often am I tempted to make choices that put myself above other people?  To make me think I am better than them?  To have a mentality that separates me from my fellow brothers and sisters and prevent a connection or a relationship? It could be something easily masked, like a career choice that makes me feel important/rich but takes me away from family, friends, and the community–the people that need me.  How many times have I made myself my own False Idol?

The temptations come when I least expect them to. In the times when it is the quietest.  Temptations come not in the voice of the Devil but in my thoughts, my logic, & my selfish desires.

Jesus, My Lord & God.  Give me the strength to conquer the temptations that draw me away from You.  Grant me wisdom so that I may follow Your example, and to understand that a relationship with God is what I truly need. Let me choose You over myself, always.

Relationships, first

This is a re-post of an entry I made on my own blog, but updated for Giao Ly:

Mt 5:17-37

23Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you,p 24leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

In this week’s gospel, Jesus shares great insight into the Ten Commandments, especially around Anger, Love, and Marriage.   What really struck me about this reading is that even in the midst of reviewing the commandments, Jesus reminds us of something of great importance: making right our relationships.

I was reflecting on the reading, and the word “reconcile” really jumped out at me.  Even as Jesus was recounting God’s law and commandments, Jesus asks us to take a time-out, and make our relationships right, between others, first.  There is great wisdom in that — it forces us to be true to those around us and to ourselves.  That way, my gifts offered to God can be pure and true.

Make clean my heart, o Lord!

It reminds me so much about how I can struggle in my relationships each and every day, and those feelings can change (even slightly) the motives in why I do things.  There may be someone I am envious of, or maybe someone who has upset me and I took a passive-aggressive way to deal with it.  Or maybe someone who really hurt me and I am tempted in being emotionally vengeful.

It’s really important to make that relationship right, again.  As catechists, assistant catechists, and volunteers, we often struggle with each other, too.  It may be that we were hurt with a passing comment, some feedback we received, or we’ve been feeling uneasy for a few weeks.   It could have come from a friend, a fellow catechist, a volunteer, even.

Let Jesus remind us to focus on our relationships, first, and the rest of Giao Ly will follow.

What on Earth does it mean to be the “Salt of the Earth”?

MT 5:13-16

I never gave much thought to the teachings of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. The analogies and parables Jesus used often made me wonder,

  • What is the significance of “salt” for us to be compared to it?
  • Why does Jesus make it seem like my life is so significant that I would be considered “light of the world”?

Salt, in a tasting sense, can be quite subtle, yet so essential to making a dish taste the way it should. Much like us, our presence to others may be subtle, and our absence is significant enough to not go unnoticed. We, as the salt of the earth, are personally called by Jesus to season the earth and all its people with God’s Word and goodness.

But where do we start? We already have! We are salt for our students, children, friends and family. We may not think much of it, but here are a few examples:

  • Showing up for a family gathering on a non-major holiday shows so much love and devotion to our family members than we would ever express in words
  • Listening to a friend’s troubles and offering insight when no one else will
  • Our mere presence in class each Saturday

All of these exemplify our commitment and love for our family, friends, children, and students. We may not explicitly tell our loved ones, “I am committed to teaching/caring for you” or “I love each and every one of you”, but our actions, hard work, and heart put into everything we do for them is more than enough to show that love and commitment better than words can describe.

We are the light of the world. Whoa. That’s huge. Little do we know, we are bright, burning lights for those around us. Why must we shelter and hide that internal light from the world as if it will be dangerous or too much to handle? Let your light shine for others, because who knows, maybe your light will make all the difference for someone who feels lost in the darkness. God created us and lit a light within each and every one of us. So why would He create such a light within us just to have it hidden all the time?

Let us be reminded of our significance as salt of the Earth and light of the world. May the Lord help us to hold onto our identity as His people, His children, that we may carry ourselves according to his Will. So let that light shine forth from your good deeds! Let us go forth to glorify our heavenly Father with all our hearts, minds, and souls.

Jessica Thúy Quỳnh Vũ, Phụ Trách Tình Thân (Bonding Activities Coordinator)

Don’t Judge a Manger by its Appearance

Luke 2:16-21 (Gospel Reading for the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Mother of God)

Even before the Christmas season began, there were many signs that made it obvious that it was coming. Christmas lights are hung, Christmas trees brought out and decorated, Christmas music playing on every radio station, and the list goes on. All the visuals made it blatantly clear that the special holiday season was upon us.

What isn’t made clear is that the greatest gift everyone receives is a King, the King above all Kings. Why? It’s simple. Jesus, the Son of God, was born as a baby boy in a lowly place, and laid in a manger, a feeding trough for cows and horses. Not the first image I would think of when I think of royalty, of a God. Where’s the warrior? The great Messiah to deliver us all? If anything, being born in a feeding trough sounds unsanitary.

Yet, in the most unexpected of places, we find our Savior and our friend. Would we think to look in this sort of place for something so great? In this Sunday’s Gospel, the shep-herds were in such a hurry to go to find Jesus. They were tending their flock of sheep, going about their daily lives when they received news from the angel about the birth of Jesus. They came as they were, not worrying about looking physically presentable to Jesus because their hearts were open to Jesus. They willingly let Jesus into their lives, and as a result, they received so much joy and happiness. So much that they had to share this news to all they met!

In life, it’s easy to overlook the difficult moments in our lives, questioning where God is. But in the coldest of nights, in the humblest of places, Jesus made himself accessible to us as a vulnerable baby. He didn’t want to come to us as a great, untouchable person. In coming to us as a baby boy, Jesus signaled to everyone that he wanted to create a loving relationship with us. Not only did he came to redeem us, but he came to know us, to live among us, and to love us. As we all walk on our faith journey, this Gospel encourages us to seek for Christ in the mangers of our lives and to continue building a relationship with him. Sometimes in the dark-est of times is when the pure light of Jesus shines through and transforms us anew.

Quỳnh-Như Nguyễn, Phụ Trách Giáo Xứ (Parish Life Coordinator)

Christmas – a reminder of God’s plan

Mt 1:18-25  (Gospel reading for Christmas Vigil Mass) I never gave much thought before about how Joseph reacted when an angel appeared to him and shared the news that Mary was going to bear Jesus.   This year it kind of hit me… surely, so many thoughts must have been going through Joseph’s mind! An Read More

Mt 1:18-25  (Gospel reading for Christmas Vigil Mass)

I never gave much thought before about how Joseph reacted when an angel appeared to him and shared the news that Mary was going to bear Jesus.   This year it kind of hit me… surely, so many thoughts must have been going through Joseph’s mind!

  • An angel?  Appearing to me?  Wait, this is kind of hard to believe.
  • What?! My betrothed is pregnant?!  Impossible!  (Or rather, if she did conceive without my knowledge, how embarrassing!)

Now, Joseph was a devout man, and the Gospel makes it seem that he accepted this news with such ease.   If I put myself into his shoes, as a man engaged to be married myself, I would have a hard time dealing with this!

How would I not have emotions of anger, or fear, or embarrassment of the woman I am with?  How do I answer others who ask questions skeptically and don’t believe my answers?  How would I accept the fact that I would now need to be a father, protector, and care-taker of something that I didn’t have a hand in?

This Christmas, I am reminded that God will often  give me gifts that force me to change my plans for the future.   So many times I think I’ve got it “all together” and my “master plan” is in full force, but God can quickly turn that on its head.  Not that I really know what will come, but I have to entrust the future to him.   Joseph did, and with great generosity and spirit.

Maybe that is what the giving spirit of Christmas is all about.  Less so in giving gifts to one another, but gifting ourselves to a more masterful plan — God’s plan for our lives by welcoming Jesus openly into ours.

Triệu Minh Quân Paul, Phụ Trách Chung (General Coordinator)

Got Space?

This past Thanksgiving, my family had a potluck and everyone brought the most delicious food including prime ribs, turkey, stuffing, and so much more. I ate so much that I had no more room to eat dessert!

It seems that every time Thanksgiving comes around and we enter into Advent, we are filled with so many things.  We are filled with food, parties, shopping, friends and family visits which are all wonderful things.  In that “busy-ness”, Cha Thanh reminded me last week during mass, that Advent, which means “Coming”, is a time for us to prepare for Jesus to come into our lives more fully.  But for Jesus to do that, He needs some space.  When Mary said “yes” to God, she had to make a sacrifice of her time and space to carry Jesus in her womb.  In contrast to Mary’s “yes”, the innkeepers and others said “no” to the Holy Family as they tried to find shelter for the night and give birth to Jesus.  It is so easy and even rational for me to say “no” either from fear or from lack of space or time.  I don’t really know who this stranger is. I don’t want my comfortable life to change or be inconvenienced.  My house and heart is too full.  I am too busy to spend a moment with Jesus.

The image of Mother Mary is a great reminder that in order to allow Jesus into my heart and soul, I need to clear it of the clutter which includes the good as well as the bad.  Sometimes I am tempted to do more good things.  Giao Ly needs me to do more. My work needs me to work longer. Friends and family need more of my time.  Then there are the bad temptations which take up more space such as pride, anger, arrogance and indifference.  These things push Jesus even further out of my heart.

Advent is a time to prepare to not just celebrate Jesus coming into the world 2000 years ago, but to anticipate His coming into my heart and soul more fully. Can I put down my phone and not check the latest Facebook post or that text message from a friend?  Can I put down the video game or skip watching that funny show on TV?  What can I do to clear some space in my heart and soul and spend some time with Jesus so that Jesus can enter and transform it?

Sơn Trần, Phụ Trách Tâm Linh (Spiritual Life Coordinator)